To Do List

From a well-written, thoughtful, insightful blog writer about a sabbatical year in Jerusalem with her family.

This “to do” list is daunting and also satisfying, and indeed has occupied me for several months now. Yet the more things I cross off my list, the more haunted I am by its superficiality. A more emotionally honest “to do” list would contain items like: educate children and self for major cross-cultural adjustment. Prepare for loneliness, alienation and exhilaration. Practice acts of flexibility and personal re-invention. It’s no wonder we prefer instead to write: Pick up prescriptions. Buy sun hats. Get pedicure.

via A Year On | Adventures of a mom in the Middle East | Page 5.

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You’re Invited

Say yes to invitations, accept the hospitality, be appreciative.

 “no matter what offer is made to you whilst away, just ACCEPT it!”

via Teaching in Canada – Canada – Canadian Adventures – WorldNomads Adventures.

 In the beginning, never turn down an invitation from someone, even if it’s something you wouldn’t normally do.

via How To Make A Bunch Of New Friends In Any New City.

 My father always says: “when you’re living abroad, never turn down an invitation.” In fact, Dad says, expatriate life is socially freeing. Since you don’t fit in anywhere, you can go anywhere, with anyone.

via Never turn down an invitation | A Year On.

 The people who have the best time when teaching abroad are those who never turn down an invitation – be it waltzing with OAPs, planting trees, or riding tandem around ancient city walls. You’re there to experience a new culture, so embrace the serendipitous, the unexpected and the unusual!

via Am I Cut out for the World of TEFL? » Travel Guides | i-to-i Chalkboard: TEFL and TESOL Community.

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Where is Home

I found this insightful post at “A Year On” sharing experiences of a sabbatical year in Jerusalem:

If community-building is centripetal, pulling together, this year is all about the centrifuge. Our little family unit is being spun all around, getting to interact with all different kinds of people and communities. It’s confusing but not lonely, or as my parents always said about our family, “never easy, never dull.”

via A Year On | Adventures of a mom in the Middle East.

In another post, she describes some of the challenges her children experience with the change and the new environment. She observes that “home” takes on a new meaning in a new place. Home becomes even more about family, the people that occupy our home. Home feels like home not because of where we are, but those with whom we share it. She goes on to tell her children:

“you know, you can feel two things at the same time. Really, really happy to be living here and having these new experiences, and really, really sad to not be at home.” Which is the truth.

It’s a simple truth.

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Anticipation

Today is the application deadline. Everything is in order and the wait begins (continues). Because the school board published the exchange approval in the meeting minutes, our application is common knowledge, but not yet having a match we explain that the exchange is not a “done deal” and it will be several months before we hear anything.
So, while the excitement of the exchange is palpable, it is tempered with an understanding that it may not happen. Yet, the more we think about it, the more we look forward to the experience and the more we appreciate the depth of the undertaking. Preparing finances, the house, the classroom, documenting contents, outlining care and maintenance procedures for managing seasonal changes, and the like. It can certainly feel overwhelming.
Reading exchange teachers’ blogs, some highlight the intense professional challenge and workload from understanding new curriculum, adapting to new assessment practices, participating in the social and cultural life of the school and community. As experienced as one might be, it probably feels like the first year of teaching. I also suspect that while blogging from the exchange location, participants are careful about what they post and will highlight the positive aspects of the experience.

Having said that, it is also clear that the experience is transformative and very positive but that comes through challenge. We talk about the challenge – try to open ourselves to the tests to come, professionally, personally, culturally, and recognize that it will be hard, there will be frustrations, and certainly the day-to-day routine will set in and we’ll find that it’s just like living and working elsewhere, but hotter. We joked today that we’re probably just trading mice in the garage for lizards in the garage.

Still, we are very excited by the prospect. It’s the test of the mettle, the “change is as good as a holiday”, trying something new, broadening our horizons, seeing the world through a different lens, walking a mile in someone else’s shoes. Pick a metaphor. We also consider the benefits to our dear son, who, if all goes well, will take leave of his most excellent little elementary school, attend grade 4 in Australia, and return to his little Canadian middle school for grade 5 with an expanded world view.

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Budgeting for an International Teacher Exchange

Visitors to expatistan.com and numbeo.com enter known prices for items in their location forming the basis from which cost of living comparisons are made.

Making a budget is reasonably easy; holding to a budget is much more challenging.

Digital money management tools quickly reveal where the money goes, and from there, where to staunch the flow. Forward planning in such tools as Quicken or Microsoft Money shows how today’s purchase affects future balances. Entering known expenses a year or two (or three) in advance makes it easier to make purchasing decisions and having the exchange goal “on the books” provides the reason for saving.

Returning from holiday with credit cards full and lines of credit extended is no fun. Nobody wants to be paying for beach-side margaritas months, or even years after the holiday. Planning ahead for flights, pleasure travel, dining and life’s necessities means fewer financial stresses there and a more comfortable situation following the exchange.

Prior to the exchange, trim expenses and bank the extra. Plan to have enough for the travel there, and sufficient spending money for pleasure travel and entertainment before you leave.

Knowing relative costs is helpful for budgeting for the year abroad. Have a general sense of relative prices, like gasoline, groceries, utilities, and vehicle insurance rates. Decide where to save and where to splurge. Plan for the bigger expenses. Remember, budgeting is not about preventing spending, but about directing it to achieve goals.

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